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Women Empowered

“Here’s what I think. Feminism is not here to dictate to you. It’s not prescriptive, it’s not dogmatic. All we are here to do is give you a choice. We want to empower women to do exactly what they want, to be true to themselves, to have the opportunities to develop. Women should feel free. There is no typical feminist, there is nothing anywhere that says you have to meet a certain criteria.”

Emma Watson

Feminist QUEEN Emma Watson says it best, as usual. However, I will try to elaborate in my own words…

Women are many things. They can be gentle. They can be nurturing. They can be warm. They can be charming. They can be kind.

They can also be tough. They can be opinionated. They can be ambitious. They can be sexy. They can be confident. They can be intelligent. They can be intuitive. They can be creative. They can be brave.
The most wonderful part is that they can be all of these things at once.

When women feel empowered to unlock all of the facets of their being, they are a force to be reckoned with. 

In this project, I have had the privilege of exploring the things that empower the women in my life. I have been amazed by the complex, accomplished, self-assured women that have opened up their souls to me. I hope to show that just as women are multi-faceted; so are the things that empower them. Empowerment is not one-dimensional. It can come from things that are pivotal in the makeup of our lives, or from seemingly insignificant everyday tasks. Whatever it is that makes a woman feel confident, inspired, or free to be herself – that is where her power comes from.

Liz loves her tattoos because they make her feel like she can be in control of her own body and how she is seen. She is curating a feminist sanctuary in her own home with works by women artists.

Sophie is empowered by her work. She values having a seat at the table, and being able to use her voice to influence and enact change on a daily basis.

Natalie does not like perfection and she doesn’t like being told what to do – by a recipe book or anyone else. She loves experimenting with cooking, and where she can add a zucchini to any recipe, she will!

Joan has a keen interest in birds. She loves seeing them enjoying things like a bird bath, the nuances of each different bird and how they forage for food, the intricate colours in their feathers, the markings around the eyes and best of all the way they nurture their young! She feels particularly empowered by her ability to capture that in a photo to share her knowledge with others.

Roisin values the power of makeup to lift her mood and present herself in the way she wants to be presented. We often talk about the opportunities that we miss out on as women, but she sees makeup as one of the privileges of femininity. It is one of the few things that we get to do as women which is harder for men to enjoy; when a lot of the time the roles are reversed.

Helen loves her job! On top of the sense of purpose and fulfilment that it gives her, it also has lots of great perks! She has been able to give her family the opportunity to travel the world and make wonderful memories.

Bella is passionate about education. Teaching is her vocation, and she is empowered by her ability to have a positive influence on children’s lives.

Jessie finds empowerment in running regularly. The achievement of reaching a new goal makes her feel both mentally and physically strong.

Bella loves to forage. The excitement of being able to pick something out of the garden and turn it into a delicious meal is both satisfying and grounding.

Phoebe is empowered by the freedom she has as an Australian woman in the 21st century. She loves her work and she has enjoyed being able to travel and work overseas – all without the need to be escorted by a husband!

Lucy loves the feeling of wearing boots. The sound they make, the sturdiness of the sole and the confidence they give her to walk through life and through any situation in comfort – just as a man would.

Natasha has worked hard to achieve her aspiration of becoming a nurse practitioner. The added responsibility and professional accountability that she has earned, coupled with her skill set, will allow her to provide a higher standard of care to her patients.

Millie finds running to be something that allows her to have control of her mind. She loves to maintain an active lifestyle in order to have power over her own health and wellbeing.

Toni feels empowered when she can take something old and give it new life. She relishes the ability to create things of her own, without following conventional design rules.

Siobhan finds power in her ability to repair, refurbish and reuse. Her creativity and skills allow her to extend the life of things that would otherwise go to waste – a cause that is of great importance to her.

I find power in the process of learning new skills. It reminds me of how capable I am and how I can benefit from taking on new challenges in so many different ways. I have enjoyed photography as a way of looking at the world through a new lens; and being able to display the fruits of my labour in our home is the most rewarding experience.




Thank you to all the wonderful women who volunteered their time, faces and minds to me over the last couple of weeks. It has been an inspiring experience for me, and I couldn’t have done it without the generosity of all the beautiful faces you see above. Thank you!

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Camperdown Cemetery

“We don’t live our lives with this much order and control. To represent them in death like this is a lie. A proper cemetery should have big, gnarled trees among crumbling angels and weathered tombstones arranged haphazardly. The grass should be littered with clover and worn down to dirt in places.”

Kevin A. Kuhn

Camperdown Cemetery is a historic site in Sydney’s inner city suburb of Newtown. It was established in 1848, and tells the story of many years of abandonment and repair. In the 1940’s most of the cemetery was returned to public space, now known as Camperdown Memorial Rest Park. The remaining graves are now contained within stone walls, sharing the space with St Stephen’s Anglican Church.

It is a fascinating place to visit, and it is strikingly different from most operational cemeteries. When I read the above excerpt, I immediately thought of Camperdown Cemetery. I think Kuhn perfectly captures the organic and wild nature of this beautiful place in his writing.

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Wallington, VIC

We spent the long weekend with family at a beautiful home in Wallington, Victoria. The stunning polished concrete floors made my jaw drop as we walked in – they are so striking and fit the architecture of the house beautifully. Little did I know the tough lesson I was about to learn about the downfalls of polished concrete! It didn’t take long to realise the acoustics were not ideal for a house full of extremely adorable – but very vocal – young children!

Every other aspect of the house was perfect for a holiday with kids. There was a beautiful pool, an in-ground trampoline and climbing equipment; not to mention the huge block of land just waiting to be explored. The bedrooms were down one end of the house and could be closed off, so once the kids went to bed we could be as rowdy as we damn well pleased!

We were a short drive to Ocean Grove beach, where many a mermaid was made. The weather was much cooler and windier in Victoria than what we are experiencing in Sydney at the moment, so it was lucky that we had such a beautiful place to stay and keep out of the weather.

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Christmas Lights

“Merry Christmas, nearly everybody!”

Ogden Nash

There is something special about Christmas time. I have spent White Christmases abroad, cuddling up in front of a fireplace and wearing daggy Christmas jumpers. The roast turkey and eggnog feels appropriate and comforting in this setting. But nothing feels quite as festive to me as wandering through the sparkling streets of Sydney on a balmy December evening. Children stand at the top of their driveways handing out candy canes to passers-by, people blast Christmas carols from their car windows and very few people are wearing shoes.

This year we checked out the lights of Lane Cove. The whole suburb participates and they have a competition for the most impressive display. It’s a little painful to think of the amount of electricity being used, but it was comforting to see some solar lights in action!

While the world is falling down around us, I think a bit of electricity is a small price to pay for some Christmas cheer!

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Ravello

We had a number of recommendations to go to Ravello, so we spent a day there while staying in Cetara. It is way up on the mountain, surrounded by small vineyards and olive groves; and dotted with gorgeous bright flowering gardens.

You could stroll through the town for days on end. There are ceramic shops, fresh produce markets, boutiques, cafes, lobster bars, and views from every corner. You really feel like you’re on top of the world when you sit on one of the many restaurant terraces and look out at the coastline below.

Ravello, you are absolutely ravishing!

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Cetara

I’m an acquired taste. I’m anchovies. If I was potato chips I could go more places.

Tori Amos

We hopped on the bus to take us to Cetara, a gorgeous little fishing town East of Praiano. In order to get there, we needed to change buses in Amalfi, so we spent some time looking around the town. Again, it is a town lined with souvenir shops and tourist-heavy cafes, albeit set against a stunning backdrop of white buildings perched on the cliff face. There are worse places to wait a couple of hours for a bus!

When we finally arrived in Cetara, we checked into Hotel Cetus and we were pleased to be welcomed by another gorgeous balcony with another epic view. We were also treated to a delicious rooftop restaurant and private beach; and we were blessed with long, sunny days, so we squeezed in plenty of beach time while we could. It was only a short walk into town where there was plenty happening. We found a gem in Ristorante Acquapazza, where there was a buzzing atmosphere, a generous wine list and huge range of appetisers, pastas and seafood to choose from. They gave us some house-made Colatura, a salted anchovy sauce which is a specialty of the town. It was delicious just drizzled on bread with some olive oil – so different to anything I’ve ever tried!

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Praiano

The last thing that blew my mind was the wind.

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After what was a surprisingly easy journey, we arrived in Praiano. Before setting off, we were dreading the train and three buses awaiting us – but it all aligned so smoothly and relatively painlessly. People travel around the Amalfi Coast via thin, winding roads; and there is a constant sound of horns in the distance as buses alert oncoming traffic of their presence. While I’m glad we opted to take the bus rather than driving, it was still always a hair-raising ride! The drivers move so quickly around each bend, and if you’re sitting on the waters’ side of the bus, it can feel as though you’re going to topple over the edge. People on bikes and scooters weave through the traffic with reckless abandon – I was in a constant state of anxiety just watching them!

We were treated to a beautiful room with a balcony and a breathtaking view at Hotel Torre Saracena. It was centrally located, just a 10 minute walk to Marina di Praia, where you could swim and choose from a range of beautiful family-run fresh seafood restaurants. Unfortunately, the weather wasn’t very kind to us during our stay – the wind was unbelievable! It was still pleasant on land, but the waves were absolutely smashing the rocks. There were some brave souls attempting to swim, but it’s hard enough to stand on a pebble beach without waves knocking you down. It made for some of the most entertaining people-watching we’ve experienced on the trip…so many stacks!

We spent most of our time enjoying the view from the balcony and taking walks up the hill to surrounding restaurants. There are beautiful ceramic mosaics lining the footpaths, and adorable shops selling limoncello, wine and locally made ceramics.

Most afternoons, while the town was closed down, we would pick up a bottle of wine and watch the sun set on the balcony. Not a bad way to wind down after 7 long weeks of travelling!

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Rome

Oh well, when in Rome…

Ron Burgundy

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Rome is brimming with history – it is literally coming up through the ground in the form of ruins on almost every corner. You could spend years here, and still not learn everything there is to know. We stayed in a suburb near the university called Testaccio, which I would highly recommend if you are ever visiting Rome! It’s a bit grungy, but there are lots of cool restaurants, cafes, delis, bars, parks and markets; and plenty of public transport options which will take you in to the city in just 15 minutes. It reminded us a lot of home, which was nice after being away for so long. One unexpected feature – there was an ancient pyramid right near the metro station. It was built as a tomb in about 18BC for some kind of religious figure we had never heard of…super random and surprisingly well maintained! We walked along the Tiber River, through the Jewish Ghetto and into Vatican city. It was about an hour walk, but took us through some really interesting places that we probably wouldn’t have otherwise seen.

Just North of Vatican city, we joined The Roman Food Tour for an evening exploring the Prati district. Our guide, Jess, was full of beans and facts! She taught us about DOP products, Italian wines and traditional Roman cooking. We tasted buffalo mozzarella, truffle pecorino, cured meats and cheeses, Roman pizza “by the slice”, ravioli, gnocchi, and of course plenty of wine. It was another delicious evening in a really cool district, and heaps of fun too! Highly recommend.

Unfortunately in Rome, there are a couple of sights that never have an off-season. Crowds are unavoidable, but you can’t go all the way to Rome and skip them! Luckily we had a week in Rome, so we could spread out the sights and just tackle one a day.

The Coloseum is such an impressive structure, both visually and architecturally. When you think about the time in which it was built, their ability to design arches and physically manoeuvre such large blocks of stone, and then fix them together in a way that would withstand the test of time; it’s awe inspiring. We visited during a time when they were conducting restoration works on the tunnels underneath the “stage”, so we were able to see all of the inner workings that you usually wouldn’t see.

We were lucky enough to eat dinner at an amazing Michelin-starred restaurant overlooking the Colosseum called Aroma. The food was amazing and the view spectacular! Sadly, our experience was somewhat tarnished by something I have never encountered before. Sam and I were given two different menus: one had prices listed while the other did not. I’ll let you guess who was given the menu with the prices! When we realised this, we were both in shock. I could imagine that this may have been common practice in the past, but we couldn’t believe that they would make such as assumption in 2019 and we were both quite offended. Unfortunately this put a bit of a downer on what was otherwise a fabulous experience. (By the way, I paid at the end just to stick it to them!)

The next day we tackled another enormous crowd. We visited the Vatican museum, the Sistine Chapel and St Peter’s Basilica. I cannot tell you a single thing about the museum. It was so crowded in there that you couldn’t see the floor, let alone stop to look at anything. We just got pushed through with the herd until we ended up in the Sistine chapel. I probably could have lifted my feet off the floor and still been carried through with the crowd. There’s nothing like visiting a heavily populated tourist destination to make you lose faith in humanity! Despite the many signs and announcements asking for silence in the chapel and requesting no photography, there were a huge number of people taking photos and talking. All that aside, it is pretty magnificent to see such a historic piece of art up close. The view from the top of St Peter’s Basilica is pretty good too.

Our next day was set aside for the Trevi Fountain, Altar of the Fatherland, the Spanish Steps & the Pantheon. I have to say, the Pantheon was one of the most impressive religious buildings we have been to. Again, the marble is marvellous! We had many gelato stops along the way to make up for the lack of gelato stops thus far.

We had the most wonderful time in Rome, and could definitely stay for many more weeks! Even with all the time we had, we still felt rushed to see everything! It’s a huge city with so many sides to explore and I can’t wait to come back.

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Siena

Disclaimer: I have suffered a corrupted SD card – an extremely traumatic experience! I thought I had lost all of my photos. Fortunately, I managed to recover most of them, albeit in much lower quality. I still wanted to post and let you know what we’ve been up to, but Please excuse any residual graininess and/or generally crap photos.
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We had one last leg of driving before leaving our car in Siena. It was nice while it lasted, but I’m glad we didn’t have to drive through any major cities! We arrived at B&B I Tetti di Siena and were pleasantly surprised. It was a pretty epic view, which turned out to be a very easy way for us to gauge the weather each morning. We had a few bottles of wine from Tuscany, so when there was inclement weather we could just sit by the window and watch the clouds roll over the city. Not too shabby.

We were lucky enough to have another special visitor here in Siena! Here we are sneaking up on our poor unsuspecting victim…

…got him! Poor sucker. He bought us lunch AND took a whole lot of our holiday purchases home in his luggage. As far as honeymoon-crashers go, he did pretty good! Always great to see such a friendly face, even if it was only for an hour.

We visited the Cathedral of Siena and marvelled at the marble! Seriously, I’m obsessed. We’ve seen this all the way through Italy, particularly in churches, but this Cathedral boasts particularly intricate floors. So pretty, so sophisticated, such delicate colours and patterns. Considering the age of most of the churches here, it’s also in excellent condition. When we win the lottery and build our dream mansion, it will have Italian-inspired marble floors all the way through. The official colours of Siena are black and white, so the interior of the Cathedral and baptistery are designed with these colours as a feature. It’s quite a harsh colour palette for a church, but the floors seem to balance it out. I bloody love those floors.

We spent a lot of time in Piazza del Campo, people-watching, eating long lunches and drinking into the evening. We’re very predictable, I know. We’re both aware, and we plan to work on it…after we have finished enjoying our honeymoon. The piazza follows a fairly steep slope all the way down into the centre, where there is a drain. We found a bar called Key Largo with a very precarious staircase up onto a balcony. It was completely empty, with an uninterrupted view over the whole piazza – perfect for our people-watching purposes! Definitely a hidden gem. The balcony is very clearly visible from the piazza, but I think most people must not know how to get up there. You have to walk through to the back of the bar to find the staircase. The sandwich shop beside us seemed to have access as well – one to check out!

There is a facade that seems to stand alone beside the Duomo, which was built in the beginning stages of a project that planned to expand the cathedral. It was to be the facade of the New Duomo, however the building was never completed. The facade remains as a museum and a panoramic viewing platform, so we climbed it. Yes, we spent our afternoon doing something other than eating and drinking! Weird.

While we had a great time eating and drinking in the Old Town, we always like to venture off the beaten path a bit, so we went for a walk outside the city gates. On the way out we stumbled across Ravioli Wang, somewhat reminiscent of Mario Tokyo at our beloved Strathfield station. We didn’t eat there despite the temptation, but I couldn’t resist taking a photo. Love a good cultural mash-up. After passing the gates we found suburban Siena, with local eateries preparing for dinner service and nonnas tending to their gardens. It was quite astounding to discover that after walking just 30 minutes past the gates, we found ourselves among vineyards, olive groves and wide open paddocks. It felt as though we had walked all the way back to Greve! A really nice way to spend a day, seeing how the locals live.

By the time we returned, it was after dark and we saw the city in a new light. Siena is strangely quiet at night time. We found a beautiful restaurant with a casual atmosphere and friendly staff. Osteria Permalico is positioned on one of the steeper streets of Siena, and the outdoor tables are set on individual “stages” so that they don’t slide down the hill! When you venture inside you will find exposed brick walls lined with bottles of and spirits and local wines, alongside beautiful photos of the local area. The jukebox plays all-time classics and sets the mood perfectly. The staff get in their daily cardio, literally running up and down the hill to take orders and deliver food. We sat outside under the full moon – the atmosphere and the food were both unbelievable.

We have now exhausted our supply of honeymoon-crashers and will be forced to endure each other’s company for the next couple of weeks…stay tuned!